Questions. Uncertainty. Comparison.
Whether polygamy has already begun or your husband has only started talking about it, the pressure arrives long before an additional wife does.
This is not a marriage assessment. It does not score him and it does not score the marriage. It measures you: what you have built, what you govern, and what holds when the ground moves.
Forty questions across the six domains that decide whether a woman holds steady or comes apart. It does not ask how you feel about your situation. It asks what you have actually built.
Coach Fatimah
Free. About ten minutes. No call required to get your result.
This measures more than how well you are coping.
Coping is what a woman does when there is nothing underneath her. Governance is what she does when there is. The assessment scores six domains independently, in the order they depend on each other. A break in an early domain affects every domain after it.
Clarity
An accurate read on what is actually true about your marriage, your money, and what is actually being proposed. Not what you fear and not what you hope.
Command
The standards you set for yourself and say out loud, rather than holding them privately and expecting him to guess.
Composure
What happens inside you when something lands where it hurts, and whether it reaches the rest of the house.
Conversation
Saying the true thing early, to him, before it hardens into something else.
Coordination
Your time, your money, your agreements, and what is actually yours.
Continuity
What you are building that will outlast this season, whichever way it goes.
Built to show you what is actually there.
Most assessments written for women ask how you feel and then hand the feeling back in kinder language. This one asks what happened in the last thirty days, what exists in your name, and what you would do in a situation you have probably already been in.
Your result places you on the FRAME Spectrum Code, C1 through C7, and names the domain costing you the most right now. It is usually not the one you came in worried about.
- Six domains, each scored on its own
- Forty scenario and evidence questions
- Your C1 to C7 spectrum level
- The gap between where you place yourself and where you score
- Free, about ten minutes
For women at either end of this.
For a wife whose husband has started talking about polygamy and has not decided anything yet. For an initial wife who is already living it. You do not need a co-wife for this to apply to you, and you do not need to have made peace with anything before you take it.
Your result is not a verdict on who you are. It is a description of where you are standing today, and positions move.
Find out what you are actually standing on.
Ten minutes now, before the next hard conversation rather than after it.
Free. About ten minutes. Your answers are not shared.
This is a developmental instrument. It does not diagnose, screen for, or describe any mental health condition.